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Old 08-30-2011, 11:46 AM
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Welcome. It will be rough the first couple of times, I can't promise you will be 100% ok with it, I know I don't think I ever will. But I am at 85%. It is amazing to see that love return to you. Take a look at xeromag.com. They have some good stuff on there about jealousy. It has helped me a lot. Also the book the Ethical Slut has some good insight to jealousy, actually stories about the authors. It wasn't all the just be ok with it. It was real with crying and arguing. It happens. The feelings are real and can be explored. You will learn that most of them come from your insecurities like being replaced or not being enough. You will learn in time that you can replace these just by remembering the feeling of when she is back and how the surge of jealous emotions going flying out the window and your feelings of love start to rush through you. I hope to hear more of your story, even the start of it is inspiring. I wish you the best on your journey.
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