Originally Posted by ispolyforme
I'm talking about time and attention to my feelings; mostly about walking down a pathway toward a polyamorous lifestyle with her. I needed to know that if I was going to do this with her, that she was going to provide me with support and understanding, not just whipping me with her NRE with W. Since then, she has become much more attentive.
I am in the same position as you, being the "poly virgin". I have spent the last couple of years learning, opening my mind, taking things at my pace. I think you are doing a great job trying to learn the best ways to deal with the jealousy, while learning to be supportive and undertanding of your partners ability to love more than one.