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Old 08-30-2011, 10:15 AM
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Originally Posted by Magdlyn View Post
Second as far as linear time goes, first in your heart...
Exactly my situation. Of course, there is the difference that when I met Moonlightrunner, he was already married and hence I could at best be considered a co-primary, whereas my primary VanillaIce was single when we met.

I think the greatest difficulty with the term secondary is with those people who are, either by conviction or by happenstance only involved with the person who has a primary of their own. If both consider each other secondaries and have primaries of their own, I guess the baggage would be different, too.
Me: bi female in my twenties
Dating: Moonlightrunner
Metamour: Windflower
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