Originally Posted by celiset
Um, you don't *have* to do anything. Jeez.
*You* get an attitude with me over something trivial in the last post, and in this post still manage to make it seem like it's *my* fault? At least my bf and I both know that neither of us can *make* the other feel anything. How you feel is an independent choice. So if you're feeling frustrated, take a look at yourself first.
To be honest, both he and I have read your "radical honesty" in previous posts and we see you as condescending, codependent, and a big fat know it all. How's that for radical honesty?
Bad form, Celiset!
Unacceptable behavior. Completely unacceptable. And also in violation of the Site Guidelines you agreed to when you joined.
If you don't like RedPepper's advice, don't take it. If you don't like the way she asks for clarification, don't respond if you don't feel like it. But don't be rude to someone who's taken time our of her (usually VERY busy) day to try to consider your trouble and help you with it.
And incidentally, RP is one of smartest, funniest, most experienced and most generous polyfolk around. God knows she's handed me a touriquet or two when I was bleeding out. So, way to cut the nose off your own face!