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Old 08-29-2011, 07:30 PM
Allstar Allstar is offline
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This is new to me as well. My gf told me after we had been dating a little bit. It wasn't serious between us at that point. I told her I would research and see what I thought. I have been on here since. She came out and told me, just flat out. I had to ask what it was. It scared the shit out of me to be honest. I ended up not talking to her for three days. I came around. I can't say I love every aspect of it, but it has its advantages. I no longer have the worry about someone cheating on me. Just be honest and forward. Be prepared to do a lot of talking, remember to listen to what he is saying. Don't dismiss anything he says. Slow is good, I have been working through my issues for about 4 months now and I can't say that everything is 100% ok but there is a reasonable level of comfort for me. Message me if you care to know more. I am always willing to share. Best of luck.
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