Welcome. There are a few other long-timers here, too. I know that someone recently joined who has about the same length of experience in poly as you do, but their username escapes me at the moment.
The world opens up... when you do.
Oh, oh, can't you see? Love is the drug for me. ~Bryan Ferry
"Love is that condition in which another person's happiness is essential to your own." ~Robert Heinlein