I don't know if people have been sending you private messages, but only three people have replied to this thread you've started. One advised you to ask him to slow down, another said follow your gut, and the last one said spread your wings and live a little.
Maybe there's more space between these lines than I realized. Or perhaps there's something else you're reading into this that you need to deal with.
Shhhh!!! Be vewy vewy quiet. I'm hunting wabbits. I mean unicown wabbits.