I guess my point about the Bible quotes was, they've been called secondaries for over 2600 years, it obviously works.
Of course, a 2ndary can be loved more than one's primary. Hey, it happens. Even after NRE fades, you could be more enamoured of your second than your first. Maybe she meets more of your needs and accepts the newer version of you better than your primary does.
Second as far as linear time goes, first in your heart...
My thoughts are so disjointed today. Hurricane fear messin with my head.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
me: Mags, 59, living with:
miss pixi, 37