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Old 08-26-2011, 08:20 PM
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Originally Posted by Sirius View Post
ADD . . . The problem is not so much primary innattentiveness, but that we are overstimulated by too many things in our immediate orbit. When something or someone grabs our attention though we tend to hyperfocus (incredible NRE?) sometimes to the detriment of our other interests or relationships and our general well being.
ADD manifests differently in women than it does men and boys. Women and girls are more often affected by the inattentive type of ADD. So you can't really generalize about symptoms for everyone who has ADD. However, I don't see how this relates to the OP or this thread, since there was no mention made of ADD. It just seems they have some communications issues and areas in which they are not as compatible as others.
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