Originally Posted by dearprudence
What does a long term secondary look like? What does it feel like? Where does it go from here?
I've wondered that myself! My secondary relationship started almost a year ago, turning into full blown love about 7 months ago. We both have other partners and children we live with. Sometimes I wish for more, but like you, can't see it happening and it's frustrating... Though it's definitely worth it and I'd rather have my b/f part-time than not at all