I live in a MFM vee and understand your concern. For us it has been 2 and a half years. I really don't care what people think any more. It sucks too much of my energy to be concerned.
We just got on a ferry from western canada to main land USA and I was all set to tell the boarder crossing customs person that I was with my husband, boyfriend and son. *shrug* I figure they will think I am divorced and we are all still close. Whatever, its the truth and people will eventually get used to that. Most in my life are and the greater community will in time. Change occurs when we just live our truth I reckon.
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