Originally Posted by redpepper
That is why I said "usually."
Some people would say that I am in a poly fi situation at the moment, but as there is no agreement that we stick to having sex with JUST the closed group, and because I use condoms with two of my partners, this to me is not a usual example of poly fi.
Oh yeah, I wasn't challenging you, just adding to what you said and directing my answer to BU.
Interesting about your situation, RP. I did think you had an agreement with your partners to be polyfi.