Originally Posted by redpepper
I wasn't offended celiset, just a bit frustrated. Some of us have been on here a long time and dedicate a lot of time to this forum. I love reading what is going on for people and love helping out when I can with some radical honesty, but I don't like to be made to feel that I have to. That's all.
Thanks fidelia for passing on the link. There are many many people that started on here for the very same reason you are.
I'm not sure I understand your situation. Has he met some women, not met women? I don't get it. Is he looking for a relationship? Or sex? If the latter then that isn't poly by my standard. Its an open relationship which is not what this forum is about. Clarity please, if you know at this point? Its a little confusing.
Um, you don't *have* to do anything. Jeez.
*You* get an attitude with me over something trivial in the last post, and in this post still manage to make it seem like it's *my* fault? At least my bf and I both know that neither of us can *make* the other feel anything. How you feel is an independent choice. So if you're feeling frustrated, take a look at yourself first.
To be honest, both he and I have read your "radical honesty" in previous posts and we see you as condescending, codependent, and [deleted by moderator]. How's that for radical honesty?
For everyone else, you all seem really nice and I appreciate your help.
I think I'll take my questions elsewhere.