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Old 08-25-2011, 08:20 PM
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Originally Posted by Minxxa View Post
But... still... you don't know her that well. Maybe once she learns he's not separating from you, that you're NOT spending all of your time with your boyfriend, and that she's NOT going to be the new love of his life, and instead she has been sucked unknowingly into a poly relationship--- she might not react that well. Maybe she will, maybe she loves him that much, maybe she's truly an understanding person.
And I'm suspicious of how quickly she's even saying she loves Sundance. Come on, after a few dates? So, I'm worried that she has a tendency to be co-dependent and things will get very messy indeed when the truth comes out.
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