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Old 08-25-2011, 06:34 PM
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Just a thought that came to me... has he thought about what's going to happen when he 1) calls it off with her with no warning or 2) she finds out he lied to her completely about your relationship and other things-- with this woman he WORKS with?
Yes, I agree. NOT a good situation for someone you work with. That will be very messy. AND she brought him to a thing with her family, which is why I said this a while back:
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Originally Posted by nycindie View Post
She would feel like total shit introducing him to her family with a certain idea of who he is and what his marriage is like, only to find out later that he lied to her about it.
Well, she WILL feel like total shit about this relationship because of the lies, no doubt about that.

Sundance, oh Sundance! Where are you? Come out, come out, wherever you are! Methinks you've got some unspoken shit going on and confusion about a few things... and we want to help!

(I do hope he comes here to post, Carma)
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