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Old 08-25-2011, 06:13 PM
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Originally Posted by AnnabelMore View Post
Hell, even if he'd told me it was her, I'd still be mad as hell that he took the call!!!!
Me too.

Originally Posted by Carma View Post
Like I just mentioned on another thread, he is afraid that everything he does with her, gives me license to do the same with Butch.

I think he suspects that i am setting him up, that I want him to go deeper with him, so I can go deeper with Butch.
Well, we all do manipulative things unconsciously, but how deep you go in your relationship with Butch is... pretty much up to Butch, isn't it? Butch is the one who requires a certain amount of distance, doesn't he? Anyway, it's not like you and Sundance can really determine the depth of your relationship with Butch, or his relationship with Barbie. Those things are determined by the hearts involved.
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