Originally Posted by transcendental
He still can't really accept that there is anything unusual with a guy who doesn't like to do that much in bed.
Wow, really? How odd. I mean every partnership has its ups and downs sexually. When I had 3 kids in 5 years the sex life with my ex went south for a number of years, but that is only because we just really didnt have the time, and I was always exhausted by the end of the day. Health issues, other life stresses can of course affect the sex life, but he's had issues from Day 1, it sounds like.
How can he be in denial that he has issues after 2 years of couples/sex therapy?
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