Annabel, your perspectives FLOOR me! Awesome.
Tigersgirl, someone posted a link here about porn and its effects, you may want to do some research. It can really twist up people, if it escalates.
It's not about being a prude. Porn can really block emotional intimacy. And I suspect that's what you're into, which is healthy. Don't fall for that shit that it's your fault you're too uptight -- if it's not in moderation, it's out of control. He may be disinterested in porn now because his tolerance level has gone up -- now he needs to take it to a bigger high, i.e."real" women. It could be an addiction. Check into this!!!
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