Originally Posted by redpepper
What's all that mean?
I suspect, based on the commercial link on his profile, that he's just here trying to get attention to his profile to avoid the spamming rules. As long as he's not posting spam links in his messages or in a sig file that appears with those messages, he's not in violation.
However, posts such as the one he just made do qualify as trolling and I did award him with an infraction for the effort. Claiming that poly folk are cheating just isn't going to fly....
When speaking of various forms of non-monogamy...it ain't poly if you're just fucking around.
While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.