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Old 08-24-2011, 12:25 PM
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Another way to think about it... he has to realize that every single bit of uncomfortableness he feels about the idea of you being with guys, you also feel about him being with girls, just with the bits swapped ("are her breasts nicer than mine" versus "is his cock bigger than mine", "will he get her pregnant" versus... well, no, that one's really worded the same either way). Maybe putting it in those terms will help him understand how you feel and be a little more sensitive. You guys can live the poly dream and not break up, with some luck and hard work and communication, but not if he treats your feelings like they're less serious than his.
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