Yeah, that doesn't sound like polyAMORY. Where's the love? It just sounds like a guy obsessed with group sex.
And being sneaky about it, to boot.
I don't understand why you'd need to give up a personal therapist you love, to be able to see a couples' counselor!
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
Mags (poly, F, 61) loving miss pixi (poly, F, 39) since January 2009, living together since 2013
also loving Punk (42, M) since Oct 2015 (he has recently downgraded us to friends)
"Master," (mono, 34), miss pixi's Dom for 2 years