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Old 08-23-2011, 01:27 AM
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Originally Posted by BlackUnicorn View Post
VanillaIce is a kinkster. I love her, want to make her happy. Even if it means going out of my comfort zone at times. In the meanwhile, I'm trying to sort out if there is something in BDSM I could identify with, what is something I'm comfortable with and what I'm not okay with. Tender boundary-exploration in-process.
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BU, I thought I remembered you saying, some time ago (perhaps not long after you joined here?), that you're not into BDSM at all.
Oh, I was wondering because you were sounding like an expert already.
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