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Old 08-22-2011, 11:45 PM
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Originally Posted by ray View Post
I am terrified of falling in love with a vanilla. I'm not sure that I could engage in sex without any kink.
Oh my! Terrified of loving! No, don't be terrified of that. Loving someone will make it beautiful, and a loving relationship is about lots more than sex. Besides, what kinksters call vanilla sex (what a put-down!) isn't really necessarily boring or unadventurous. AND, if you're poly, you can also have another lover to do kinky shit with. So, if love comes your way, don't fight it or be terrified, let it in!
The world opens up... when you do.

"Oh, oh, can't you see? Love is the drug for me." ~Bryan Ferry
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