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Old 08-22-2011, 05:47 PM
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Originally Posted by AnnabelMore View Post
All that said, I can tell you that becoming sexually non-exclusive doesn't mean you won't share anything unique or special.
This is a good point to remember. And being emotionally non-exclusive doesn't mean your relationship with him won't be unique or special either.

It certainly sounds like he has cheated, was on the verge of cheating, or at the very least is giving himself the thrill of thinking about it by cruising the ads. We've only got one side of the story here, but on the face of it, his defensiveness doesn't sound constructive, to say the least.

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Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG
Get counselling for both of you and seek out support for yourself - not just here, but real people to talk to.
Definitely take this advice. A supportive but neutral professional or two can often guide you through things that seem like an impasse.
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