Originally Posted by SNeacail
Maybe it's not her partners that were against the idea?
Well, as he said, those other partners were just casual hookups, FWBs, FBs. When I first separated, I dated casually for a while, while also having a gf, and we didn't bother to set her up to meet all those people. She only ended up meeting 2 out of like 2 dozen, after I'd been seeing them for several months.
This case is more likely to be because Beth is a dyke and her gf is a dyke, and Rayek, while genderqueer, has a dreaded penis. There is a good deal of prejudice in dykeland against penises.
(My gf miss pixie is a transwoman and we have experienced this first hand.)
I am sorry you're feeling excluded, Rayek.