Originally Posted by SNeacail
Maybe it's not her partners that were against the idea?
Well, as he said, those other partners were just casual hookups, FWBs, FBs. When I first separated, I dated casually for a while, while also having a gf, and we didn't bother to set her up to meet all those people. She only ended up meeting 2 out of like 2 dozen, after I'd been seeing them for several months.
This case is more likely to be because Beth is a dyke and her gf is a dyke, and Rayek, while genderqueer, has a dreaded penis. There is a good deal of prejudice in dykeland against penises.
(My gf miss pixie is a transwoman and we have experienced this first hand.)
I am sorry you're feeling excluded, Rayek.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
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