Originally Posted by Bahalana
I understand that they are promising that you will all be equals eventually, but in the mean time it seems that you're being considered a secondary relationship. (A term about which there is much contention and discussion) Hopefully they are as good as their word and this is all just temporary as you work out the basics of your relationship.
Here is a link to some very useful information for secondaries, but it really applies to anyone in any relationship.
This second one is a useful satire, be sure you don't put up with this type of crap.
Thanks! I'll be sure to read those =)