Originally Posted by redpepper
Look for dirt on him so that you can hold it over him. I know that sounds awful, and I don't suggest you use it unless you have to, but I have seen far too many women with nothing manage to come out of situations like yours simply because they had evidence that their men were up to no good... stuff that would hold up in court.
I guess this is one example of a "good reason" to invade someone else's privacy, n'est ce pas?
We've talked about this on the forum before. I'm not trying to hijack; but i wanted to point that out. Some folks say there is never a good excuse to snoop on someone and i disagree. If protecting oneself is paramount, other people's privacy can kiss ass.