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Old 08-19-2011, 11:42 AM
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Originally Posted by Periwinkle View Post
Many poly resources have talked about the importance of not needing a relationship and being fine with it ending.
Woot?! Sorry to be so blunt but where did you pick this BS from?

Not needing a romantic relationship to feel good and validated as a human being is SOO different from not caring if a relationship ended or not. Of course you care! Of course it hurts when things end! The important distinction is realizing that you won't actually be destroyed if a relationship ends, because it protects you from staying in unhealthy relationships out of fear. And this goes for everyone, poly or not.
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