That makes sense. I wasn't trying to make generalizations. Maybe I am too accustomed to those traditional mono relationships, which have the same rules pretty much. So you Can ask what's "normal" and what isn't. I am beginning to realize how very different and unique polyamorous relationships are from each other and that maybe there is no "norm". I guess when you involve more people, that is natural.
I am hoping they bring it up...like, how it works and what is okay and what they want, so I can ask and then express my side and hopefully we are all on the same page.
Going there now. And no I don't intend on sucking cock. Lol