It sounds like you are just caught up in some serious NRE if you're actually letting this behavior slide. You always have a right to ask questions and express your opinion.
I know I don't have all the facts but I think they're giving unicorn hunters a bad name. (not that it was a good one to begin with)
This could still work out for you if they get their act together. If it doesn't however, don't let them turn you off of couples. Monos go through many partners before they find their alleged one and only. You may have to as well magical unicorn.
Shhhh!!! Be vewy vewy quiet. I'm hunting wabbits. I mean unicown wabbits.