Thread: New && Nervous
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Old 08-18-2011, 01:47 PM
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Originally Posted by MamaBear View Post
I'm new to polyamory, as if you couldn't tell, and I'm the poly one while my husband is mono. We have a newborn, he's about 5 months old .
We've talked about this and have decided to finally just get in there and do it. I'm a little nervous...[/FONT]
How will you manage to nurture an infant, your relationship with your husband, and grow a new love relationship, all at the same time? Maybe your baby is sleeping through the night for a bit now, but quite often that ends once they start to teethe and crawl. Sleep deprivation can make one crazy. Don't wanna get all involved with a new person when one is overtired and cray-cray.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley

Mags (poly, F, 62)
Pixi (poly, F, 40) my partner since January 2009
Kahlo (poly-curious, M, 45) my bf since August 2017
Master, (mono, M, 36), Pixi's Dom/bf since April 2013
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