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Old 08-18-2011, 01:47 PM
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I'm new to polyamory, as if you couldn't tell, and I'm the poly one while my husband is mono. We have a newborn, he's about 5 months old .
We've talked about this and have decided to finally just get in there and do it. I'm a little nervous...[/FONT]
How will you manage to nurture an infant, your relationship with your husband, and grow a new love relationship, all at the same time? Maybe your baby is sleeping through the night for a bit now, but quite often that ends once they start to teethe and crawl. Sleep deprivation can make one crazy. Don't wanna get all involved with a new person when one is overtired and cray-cray.
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