Originally Posted by juliaandpatti
In the dynamic of a triad, quad would you consider a non-operative bisexual transsexual female a unicorn?
No, as stated by another poster, a unicorn is usually seen as a bisexual single woman who enters into a relationship with a MF couple.
Of course, you are a woman! And if the guy in a MF couple was bisexual (whether he is a cis gendered male or a transman), a transwoman, pre, post or non-op, should be acceptable.
However many porn watching, tranny chasing bi guys crave to be anally penetrated with a "chick with a dick." In my experience, most pre op/non op transgirls do not want to use their genitals to penetrate a guy.
Would I be a overall turn off to "straight" men looking for a relationship such as a quad like another married couple?
Some narrow minded straight cis gendered males will freak even if a transwoman is post op, should he be told or find out somehow.
Homophobia leads them to think a person with a "penis" in the bed with them would make them gay. And they think it's horrible to be gay.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
Mags, F, 60, poly-dating, loving and living with
miss pixi, F, 38
Punk, 41, M (dating since Oct 2015)
and a few more casual relationships