This doesn't sound at all like poly to me. It sounds like abuse! You are being coerced into doing things that you don't want to do. If he wants to explore outside interests then that's a discussion you can have. If you don't want to you don't have to. I agree with what others have already posted, you would be better off without him.
As a community we don't have an overarching code of conduct but poly people do believe in respect and communication.
Everything will be ok in the end. If it's not ok it's not the end.
Last edited by Derbylicious; 08-17-2011 at 06:06 PM.
Reason: another thought