Originally Posted by Tristania
The issue may end our marriage, but I am hoping that we can work through it.
What is there to work through? A marriage is a partnership where two people mutually respect and support each other. That is not what you have. Not only is he a sulky, manipulative, immature dictator, but -- do you not realize? -- he is abusing you. You are depressed because of it, and you deserve better. If I were you, I would gather up all my strength and leave him as soon as possible!