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Old 10-24-2009, 05:05 PM
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While I can have sex with those I don't love, I can NOT love everyone I am capable of having sex with.

I totally think that this is the norm.

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That is why I see the love she gives you as the gift....not the sex.

Vol
the key is, this is how you see and feel about it. I respect that. We simply view things differently. I have no need to convince others of my views nor do I want to take on the views of others. The integration of sex and love, as well as the secondary role it plays in love connection is very specific to me. I respect other aproaches and can be healthy within a relationship where my aproach is different than others...within certain limits of course LOL!
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