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Old 08-16-2011, 07:14 PM
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But have you told him how his lying to her is affecting you? Does he understand that he needs to come clean with her about the two of you? Or is he going to this event with her intending to keep the lies going? This is so not fair to you or her for him to continue with the dishonesty!
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