What are the best things to figure out?
I do believe that I now define myself as poly-curious (which is shock even to me). J is most assuredly poly, but I've always thought of myself as mono until we started going down this road of poly with J. I've been going through a lot of self discovery and I just don't know that I'm mono as I previously thought. But, I'm also not sure about poly, it's a life changing thought.
My question to all you polies out there, to aid me in my journey, is: What are the best things to figure out in order to know which path to take? I want to be sure that I am poly before I venture down that path and that I'm not just pushing a curiosity "just to see".
You can read my blog "This is so weird but also exciting lol" to read my thoughts more in depth. Feel free to post your replies here or on the blog.
Married 12 1/2 years. Female. Straight. New to poly.