Thanks for your replies!
In my life, if I would let things happen, I would still be single. I always put some effort in getting what I want...
I understand the "project" thing and I know it is not like that...even for outsiders.
Right now, I do not want anything too eccentric yet I like to get to meet the girls I like.
Many LTR's would not allow a man to do such a thing I am sure.
I am not "aiming" for anything yet I feel women become more distant from the time they know I have a girlfriend.
I know how to pick up girls. They are not afraid.
Just perhaps they don't know what to do with an outgoing guy that has a girlfriend?
Last edited by yul; 08-16-2011 at 02:35 AM.