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Old 08-16-2011, 12:54 AM
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Originally Posted by Chimera View Post
You know that the kids these days use the term "hanging out" to mean hooking up, right?
I did not know this! My lover always says to me, "I enjoy hanging out." I always finish his sentence by adding, "with me?" and he thinks it's funny. He's 34, which isn't a kid, but I'm 51 so I know there's a difference in how he means it from what I thought at first. But what do you mean by "hooking up?" Is that just sex and nothing else? We do more than that, but the nights usually end in sex. I thought by "hanging out" he meant spending time with me, going out on a date to do things -- much more than just sex.
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