Originally Posted by JaneDoe41
I'm hoping with time, maybe the veto power won't be an issue. It was brought up in the very beginning. It's been almost a year now. It's just something that I always have in the back of my mind.
Maybe you could bring it up to him. Tell him that it's been bothering you and ask if he'd be willing to talk to Vivian about it. Like, if she decides you need to go maybe it could be a discussion between him and her, with the likely result that he would let you go, but not an automatic, no-questions-asked veto power. The difference is mainly a semantic one, but it must be tough for you to feel like the relationship could be over at any minute with no say whatsoever from either of the people in it. After almost a year together, and with twice-weekly visits (that's a lot of time!) I don't think that should be too much to at least ask for.