Stacy. This has gone on long enough. Get your finances in order. Find a place to stay. Get a good lawyer, a good therapist and get out.... make sure you get lots of evidence of his relationship with this other woman first if you are afraid of what he might do. Buy your time and get organized. You have wasted precious time with this man and you knew it all along. Don't waste another moment of time showing your kids that men can treat women like that.... get out and be a strong woman so that your kids can be strong adults one day... This is not poly, this is abuse and you don't need to stay there! Use every drop of energy you have getting your act together and getting some help.
posted at the same time as sourgirl! She has some good advice too!
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