She does not call all the shots.. as she has told me for years I like a man to be in charge. I take charge and she gets upset..
She told me a few days ago.. I have no problem living on my own I make enough money I dont need you..
The only reason I work is because the kids are in school now.. it felt like she pinned me down with it.. "i own you"
Its not that I am screaming this is unfair.. and I have no idea what has happened to make her jealous upset or even depressed. It came out of the blue in our very happy life
We are best of friends.
Another of my issues is .. I came across the ocean for her from Ireland. it seems I cant assure her enough that I love her lately