I sure can't speak for "women" in general but personally --
I love two men. So I'm poly. But...
My husband just got a girlfriend, which I was ALL FOR, let me tell you, I mean, I was practically pushing him out the door, fantasizing about it, idealizing it, and now that he finally went and DID IT..... I feel like a nutcase!!! Suddenly I feel all possessive. I don't want to share!!!
Poly has facets, I guess. I can love two but I want them to love ME exclusively! Hahaha! I have a bigger ego than I realized!!!