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Old 08-12-2011, 10:05 PM
marksbabygirl marksbabygirl is offline
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What if I had posted more openly on these boards?
What if I had reached out in a way that I was able to get constructive advice?
What if I had stayed in Victoria?
What if I had learned some lessons about myself and my marriage sooner?
What if I had known to define things so that everyone's expectations were on the same page?
What if...

Well, it doesn't matter anymore, because NONE of those things happened.

So instead I could think...

What if I find someone who interests me enough that I start dating?
What if I get lost in NRE?
What if I never find anyone else?

Meh.

Its all good... because I could what if myself back to 1989 when I was first with my first 'love' and he threw me to the ground and hit me and instead of going with the kind strangers who offered to help me, I stayed with him...

So I prefer to think...

What if we just keep on doing what we're doing?

Because right now its working
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