There was a comedian I heard once, can't remember his name, but he described restarting a relationship like this:
You go to the refrigerator to get some milk.
The next day you get up and go to the refrigerator to get milk...
I'm not a fan of retrying failed relationship, but I would say if you are going to do it then you need to want a relationship with her first. Contracts and lording over partner/s is not a relationship and is bound to end in a rebellion. If you are going to enter into any relationship without having the same responsibiliy as your partner/s to make it last, it won't.
Relationships only work if both people ( everyone for panfids