TP- the great thing about poly is that you can promote them having deep friendships that they share themselves with. You are not and cannot be their everthing. I find it too much with two. Especially living together. The trick I find is not to fall into the monogamous paradigm with TWO people, but to promote shuffling off to share some of that. I figured that out after a while... I'm still working on that. Just as I need to find others to share with.
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