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Old 08-11-2011, 05:17 AM
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Originally Posted by esarati300 View Post
my wife see this one guy that is poly and he have so many woman he dates and have relationships with. (would it be a bad idea to ask him if i can date one of his womans?)
If you want to ask one of them out, ask one of them out. You can let him know you want to, but you wouldn't really need his permission, since they don't belong to him and do have minds of their own. I would think it's up to the woman to work it out with him, depending on what kind of "rules" they have. Ultimately it would be her choice whether or not to go out with you.
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