nycindie, I think I really look up to you. I think you're right.
I think Romeo and I had agreed (well, this is what we'd been doing anyway) was for me to let him know when things progressed physically, just so he'd be aware. I'm not so sure anymore that it's necessary or beneficial for him to be aware, now.
I sent you a copy of the pm I sent opalescent and BU, I hope that's OK. You don't have to reply, but I do really like your input on things.
Vix for short.