^^What BU said
Generally, it seems like equitable solutions work best. So if Romeo, despite being turned down Monday, feels his needs are being addressed and met, then there's nothing wrong with sex on Tuesday with someone else. And, of course, it matters greatly if your needs are being addressed and met.
Note equitable, not equal. You do not want to get into a 'tit for tat' situation where essentially, Romeo gets 1, other guy gets 1, and you keep a super complicated calender of who did what when, who's 'ahead', etc.
You are also welcome to PM me but really the suggestions I have are what I wrote.
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