Originally Posted by nicothoe
If J cannot handle the idea of polyamory, is he still willing to pursue a monogamous relationship with you, and if so, would you willing to forego having other relationships?
Yes he is, sort of. (willing to pursue a mono relationship with me) We are both worried about the future when this happens again. We've got what...60+ more years together. Ultimately he would just like this to not be an issue and just have me all to himself for all eternity.
As far as my willingness to forego other relationships? I'm not sure anymore. I feel incredibly selfish for saying that I don't think I could. Also, in a year he will be moving all the way across the country to literally the other coast for 4 years... without me.